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6h ago

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Hot take: Handing out business cards at every meetup was killing my connections

Oh man, I did the exact same thing at that same mixer a while back. I walked around with a stack of 50 cards and probably came off like a car salesman. It wasn't until I saw a lady just set her whole pile of cards down on a table next to the nachos and walk away that I got the hint. Now I just chat with people and if they ask for my info I'll pull one out, but that's it. Follow ups are way more genuine now because we actually had a conversation first, not just a handshake and a card shove.

1d ago

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A lesson from an old diver on a cold dock in Seattle

The 2012 Ben Ainslie comeback in the Olympics is a perfect example of freezing working, where he sat dead last and just stopped racing for a bit to reset. Doesn't patience just freeze you into a state where the water wins while you stand there?

2d ago

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Debate: Are collected editions ruining the single issue experience or saving comic readers money?

Oh man, the 'speculating on what happens next' part hit me hard. I literally have a stack of single issues I bought JUST to prove to myself I still like them, but then I wait six months to read them all at once anyway. I get caught up in the ritual of going to the shop though, like it's some kind of weekly pilgrimage where I also buy a bunch of snacks I don't need. My wallet definitely prefers trades, but my social life apparently prefers me talking to a guy named Gary about Spider-Man for 20 minutes. I guess I'll just keep doing both and pretending I have self control.

3d ago

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Customer asked me to hide the cable inside the drywall with NO access panel

Man that's just asking for trouble down the road when something fails or needs an upgrade.

3d ago

in

My uncle in Phoenix warned me about the HELOC vs cash-out refi math last fall.

My buddy did the math and realized his HELOC cost him $2k more than he saved.