Yeah the trust breaking part is real. I used to think spoiler warnings were for babies until someone messaged me "can't believe they killed the main guy" before I finished the show. Now I mute whole chats when new stuff drops. Our movie night picks got way more basic after that because nobody wants to risk it.
What was the actual fallout in your group chat? Did people just get mad for a day, or did it totally break the trust so nobody shares recommendations anymore?