Learned that lesson the hard way on a site plan last year. I split the difference now, using auto for the basic grid and then manually adding the critical ties. The initial setup takes a bit longer, but I never have to go back.

Ever notice how we frame boring tasks as obstacles instead of just normal life? It's like we're all waiting for the main quest to start and miss the side content. Your husband's right, sometimes the filler is the whole show.