My sister's $20 rule finally made my grocery budget make sense
Tbh I always thought budgeting for food meant just trying to spend less each week, but I kept blowing past my number by like $40 or more. My older sister, who's been doing this envelope thing for years, told me to stop tracking by receipt and start planning by the meal, not the item. She said to pick 5 dinners, write down every single ingredient I'd need, and only buy those things plus breakfast and lunch basics. The first week I did it, I spent $87 at the Aldi on 4th Street instead of my usual $130+ at the bigger store. The trick was that I stopped grabbing random snacks and sauces because I had a clear list tied to actual meals I was gonna cook. It felt weird to be so rigid, but now I'm two months in and my weekly total stays under $100 without even thinking hard. Has anyone else tried the meal-first approach, or do you just rely on a fixed dollar amount and hope for the best?